full feedings®
vs. CRY IT OUT Sleep Methods: What Makes Us Different

When you become a parent, sleep quickly becomes one of the biggest topics of conversation — or, more accurately, the lack of it. Exhausted parents everywhere are searching for answers. In that search, you may have come across various sleep training methods promising a full night’s sleep. But not all approaches are created equal.

If you’re here, you’ve likely heard of full feedings®, a gentle, needs-based approach to sleep that stands apart from traditional sleep training. So, what makes full feedings® different from other popular sleep methods? Let’s break it down.

Understanding Traditional Sleep Training Approaches

Traditional sleep training often focuses on teaching a baby to self-soothe and fall asleep independently, sometimes through techniques involving periods of crying. These approaches can vary, but they typically emphasize reducing or eliminating parental intervention when a baby wakes during the night. You might recognize these methods by their commonly used terms like “cry-it-out,” “controlled crying,” or “fade-out.”

While these approaches can work for some families, they don’t align with every parent’s comfort level or every baby’s needs. For many parents, the idea of leaving their baby to cry, even briefly, feels unnatural and distressing. Others find that their baby continues to struggle with night wakings or develops new issues like early rising or nap resistance, even after sleep training (which often means their age-appropriate needs aren’t being met).

How The Full Feedings Method® Is Different

full feedings® offers an alternative — a way of life to support your baby’s sleep without relying on tears. It’s the ONLY method designed to prioritize meeting both your baby’s feeding and sleep needs fully, from birth.

Here’s what sets full feedings® apart:

  1. No Cry-It-Out Our approach does not involve leaving your baby to cry alone. We believe in nurturing & supporting your baby while working toward healthy sleep patterns.
  2. Food and Sleep Are Connected full feedings® emphasizes the importance of daytime nutrition as a foundation for nighttime sleep. When babies receive adequate milk during the day, their bodies naturally prepare for longer stretches of sleep at night.
  3. Daytime Routines, Not Rigid Schedules We promote age-appropriate routines, not strict, clock-based schedules. Flexibility is key to ensuring that feeding and sleep support each other.
  4. Supporting Sleep from Birth Unlike traditional sleep training, which often starts around four months or later, full feedings® can be safely implemented from birth. Our approach supports your baby’s biological rhythms and gently guides them toward sleeping through the night by 8-12 weeks, without tears.
  5. Whole Family Well-Being We recognize that sleep deprivation affects everyone. full feedings® is designed to help the entire family get the rest they need while fostering a nurturing, connected bond with your baby.

Why The Full Feedings Method® Works

Our method is based on the understanding that babies thrive when their needs are fully met. Sleep becomes a natural byproduct of feeding well, following age-appropriate routines, and tuning into your baby’s cues.

By focusing on these “ingredients”, parents often find that their baby begins sleeping through the night naturally, without the need for harsh interventions. It’s not just about sleep — it’s about creating a foundation for healthy development, emotional security, and parental confidence.

Every family is different, and what works for one might not work for another. But if you’re looking for a gentle, baby-led approach to sleep that doesn’t involve tears, full feedings® may be exactly what you need. Our simple 3-step methods provide the guidance and support to help your baby sleep well, while ensuring their feeding and emotional needs are fully met.

Ready to learn more? Explore our affordable online sleep and feeding programs and start your journey toward better sleep today.

Ann Marks

Ann is the founder of The Full Feedings Method®, a sleep guru, a member of the Association for Professional Sleep Consultants, a Certified Breastfeeding Specialist®, and most importantly a mama of 3 (including twins). She lives in Bucks County, PA with her family and loves helping families achieve consistent nighttime sleep without "sleep training".